See Cook’s Notes below for a lighter version and other suggestions.
My family calls it “Gravy and Meatballs.” Whatever you call it, there is nothing like the smell of onions and garlic cooking in the house on a Sunday morning. As a little girl, I could remember waking up to my Grandmother or my Mom making the gravy early in the morning. I used to like to dip some Italian bread in the sauce and steal a meatball before the meal. In fact, my grandmother and my Mom would get so nervous that everyone was going to eat all the meatballs before the meal started! Most Sundays we ate dinner at lunchtime so cooking started a lot earlier in those days. Dinner would be around 2pm and last for hours.
These days we still hold to the traditional Sunday meal with my family and some close friends but we have it later in the day. Sunday dinner is a sacred time for Italians. It is a time to relive the week with everyone and have a relaxing dinner. We like to drink some wine, talk politics, religion, and naturally talk about food.
The best way to approach this recipe is to think of it in two stages. First, you get your sauce going and then, once that’s on the stove, you can add the meatballs later.
Sugar’s Marinara Sauce
- 3 tablespoons olive oil
- 4 -28 oz cans crushed tomatoes or whole tomatoes
- 8 cloves of garlic
- 1/2 onion, chopped or 1 whole small onion
- 1/3 cup fresh basil, chopped
- 2 bay leaves
- 1 can of water
Directions:
Heat olive oil in large pot. Add onions and a good sprinkle of salt and pepper. Cook over medium heat about 5 minutes until onions are transparent. Don’t let them burn. Add garlic and cook for another 2 or 3 minutes – again not allowing the garlic to burn. If the garlic burns, it gives the sauce a bitter taste.
Add the crushed tomatoes along with about a can of water and the basil. If you are using the whole tomatoes, blend them in the bender or use an immersion blender to chop them right in the pot.
Allow sauce to cook over medium high heat. Be sure the sauce is simmering but not boiling. Now, you can start your meatballs. While you do, be sure to turn / stir the sauce a few times with a spoon while it is cooking so the bottom doesn’t burn.
Meatballs
* For a lighter poultry version see notes below
- 1 pound ground pork
- 1 pound ground veal
- 1 pound ground beef
- 4 large eggs, lightly beaten in separate bowl
- 1 cup milk
- 4 slices of white bread (crusts removed)
- 1 cup grated Parmesan or Romano or mix half of each
- 5 cloves garlic, very finely chopped
- 1/2 cup finely chopped fresh Italian parsley
- 1/2 cup finely chopped fresh basil (optional)
- Salt and freshly ground pepper
- A sprinkle of seasoned bread crumbs if needed
Cut the crust off the bread and discard (or save them for homemade croutons or breadcrumbs.) Cut the remaining bread into cubes and place the bread into a bowl and add the milk and mix. Set aside and let it soak up all the milk while you prepare the other ingredients.
Add the ground meat to a separate large bowl and sprinkle well with a good amount of salt and pepper. Mix with your hands lightly to combine the different meats with the salt and pepper. Then add the chopped garlic and the parsley and basil (if using it). Mix lightly again.
Then add the bread milk mixture along with the beaten eggs and the cup of cheese. Mix well to combine all the ingredients. Mixture will be moist. If it is too wet add a sprinkle of breadcrumbs.
Spray cookie sheet with a good amount of Pam or a light coating of vegetable oil. Roll the mixture into 1 1/2-inch balls. Place balls in rows but don’t over crowd them. Bake in 400-degree pre heated oven for about 12 minutes then turn balls over and bake for another 10 min. They don’t have to be completely cooked because they will cook the rest of the way in the sauce.
Meatballs can also be boiled in a large pot of salted water for about 10 minutes or fried till they are browned on each side.
My family makes them all different ways so it depends on what you want.
Boiling and baking is naturally less fattening than frying. But I have to say that the fried version tastes so good, it’s worth it once in a blue moon. As a compromise, baking the meatballs gives you some of the flavor of frying but less fat so this is my preferred method.
Fried
Heat vegetable oil in large sauté pan over medium-high heat. When oil is hot, fry meatballs, in batches, until golden brown, turn and cook on other side but don’t cook through completely. Remove with a slotted spoon place on plate with paper towel or put them right into the sauce.
Once the meatballs are cooked, they can be added to the sauce. Allow them to simmer in the sauce for about 45 minutes. Be sure to taste the sauce to see if the needs more salt and pepper.
Remove from heat and let the sauce sit covered while you make your pasta. I sometimes let the sauce sit for an hour or more before I make my pasta so there is no need to rush. It stays hot for a very long time.
Serve over cooked al dente pasta with a good quality grated Parmesan cheese. (We pronounce this “Par-meh-zhan”)
My family also serves pasta with cold ricotta cheese. We add a dollop of the ricotta on top or side of the pasta. (We pronounce this “ri-goodt”)
Cook’s Notes
*For a lighter version of the meatballs, try this.
If you want to make this recipe leaner, you can use half ground turkey and chicken in place of the veal and beef. You can use only ground chicken but I don’t recommend using only ground turkey because the meatballs can be very dry. If the mixture is too loose and wet, add a sprinkle or two of breadcrumbs.
*Notes about the different types of tomatoes
The best tomatoes to use according to most chefs are San Marzano tomatoes. I do use these now and then but they are very expensive compared to others. I like Pomi, Hunts and many other products and tend to buy what’s on sale.
If you want to try the San Marzano I encourage you to do so but try different brands and even mix two brands when making the sauce. I find mixing the brands gives a good flavor.
*Variations
My grandmother on my Mom’s side used to add a whole peeled carrot to the sauce while it cooked and then removed it before serving. She said it would balance out the acid in the sauce. My grandmother on my Father’s side used to put a pinch of sugar if the sauce tasted too acidic after cooking. I sometime add the carrot or at times add a pinch of sugar but only if it needs it.
I also vary the meatballs at times and add a little chopped onion to the meat mixture.
*Notes about using leftovers.
Leftover pasta can be saved in a Tupperware in the refrigerator and eaten within a few days. For leftovers we’ll eat the same week, we usually combine the pasta with some of the sauce and meatballs and refrigerate together. But, it’s also a good idea to set aside a small Tupperware with a little bit of extra sauce.
Finally, when I make a big batch of this, I usually (intentionally) have enough leftover sauce and meatballs for an additional Sunday night dinner. In other words, I make a huge pot of sauce so that I have enough to freeze for another meal. Cooking extra and freezing is a great way to have wonderful meals without spending too much time cooking each week.
When you’re ready for that meal, just take the frozen sauce and put in the refrigerator for a day or two and then just reheat it in a pot when you want to have pasta again. When you are reheating the sauce, be careful not to break apart the meatballs. You need to reheat it on very low heat. Then, just cook up a batch of fresh pasta and you’re ready to go.









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Hi Sugar,
Great website! I need to make meatballs for about 25 people. How many pounds of meat and rest of ingredients and cans of tomatoes should I use for sauce?
I’m not used to cooking for that many people, I am also making baked ziti.
Thank you!
Nancy,
Thanks for the feedback. Most Sundays I cook for about 15-20 people. I usually double the recipe I list here on my site and that will be more than enough plus give you enough to freeze or eat for another night. The single recipe makes about 20 meatballs and most of the men in the family eat two meatballs each in a meal. If you don’t want leftovers go for 1 1/2 times the recipe. If you don’t have a big enough pot you can always make two pots. I’m sure everyone will love it. Please keep me posted on how it turns out. I’m traveling to Italy this summer so I will be posting some great recipes. Be sure to tell your friends.
This is the best speghetti and meatballs I’ve EVER had! The kids loved it as well…they scarfed it up as though they hadn’t ate in a month!! LOL!!
Oh that is so great to hear. I’m sure they can’t wait for you to make it again.
I made this for my family with about fourteen in attendance. It was a lot of fun cooking for my sister-in-law who is also an amazing cook. This recipe was so easy to make and so good. The gravy was amazing and the meatballs got rave reviews. The only problem I had was cooking the pasta. My sister-in-law brought over a jumbo pot and it didn’t fit the stove. It took an hour and twenty minutes to boil the water and cook the pasta.
-Spice
Oh Spice I am glad the dinner turned out well. I think I will make a note in the recipe that if you are making 2-3 pounds of pasta at a time you might want to use two smaller pots of water. I also put my water on the stove and get it going about 30 minutes prior to guest arriving. You can always leave the water on a low temperature while you have appetizers and then turn it up to high about 10 minutes before you plan to cook the pasta. Another tip is don’t add the salt until the water is ready to boil. The salt can slow down the time it takes for the water to boil.
The great thing about cooking is every time we try a new recipe we learn something. These are the lessons that you will learn when making different types of food that will turn you into an amazing cook that can handle any obstacle.
Yum! I made this on Saturday and we loved it! I made the meatballs with pork, beef, and turkey and they came out really good! Thank you!
Andria,
There are times when I can’t get veal so I use chicken or turkey too. So glad you liked it.
Hi Sugar,
Oh my Goodness! I made these a few weeks ago and didn’t add enough parmesan. This time I made them exactly perfect and they are so fantastic!!! I am making meatball sliders with this recipe for Superbowl Sunday and they will surely be a hit! Can’t wait to make your Chicken Caccatore next! Thanks for sharing, you are making us all LOOK GOOD girlfriend!
Teri,
You made my day. I love to hear feedback. It makes me so happy to hear that you cooked something you were proud of and people enjoyed it. I think cooking is an expression of love, so I like to spread the love. Keep trying my recipes and don’t be afraid to get creative. Be sure to tell everyone about my site. Enjoy!
Hey Sugar, I have been trying for years to either find a comparable recipe or somehow reverse engineers my grandmother’s, she won’t give it up. The old italian ways of if you want to know how to do it, watch over my shoulder. Well I have watched, but it feels its always missing something. I am interested in trying out your recipe, there are a few ways that are different than how I remember growing up but thats the fun of learning something new. My only question is I would like to incorporate your recipe but need to cut it down to 6-8 servings. Thanks
Mike, It’s funny that my family is the same way. My aunt came over this weekend to show me how to make her rice pudding.
It’s just the way they know how to do it. You need to see it and feel it to get it right.
You can just cut my recipe in half but honestly if you are doing all that work you may as well make the whole recipe and freeze half. I do it all the time and it’s great to just pull out the gravy and meatballs on a night you don’t feel like cooking.
Hi Sugar,
Thank you for a great video. I tried your meatballs with only two meats (didn’t know there should be three) and my teenage sons and picky husband LOVED it. I used a combination of parmesan and romano cheeses. I thought it was great. I will make more and next time with veal or ground chicken. Thanks again!
Dolly,
I’m so glad you liked them. Ground Chuck and Pork works just fine if you can’t get the veal. The veal can be pricy too so sometimes I skip it. Thanks so much for the feedback.
Be sure to spread the love and tell other people about my site.
Hi there! I tried your sauce and meatball recipes today and I have to say that the meatballs came out perfectly! Unfortunately, I seem to be having a problem with the sauce. It came out very watery and bland. Could it be due to having used diced tomatoes instead of crushed or whole? I used an immersion blender and it looked okay and even smelled good while it was cooking, but it has turned into watery tomato broth and looks nothing like your picture! Any advise would be appreciated!
Thank you so much!
Miri
Miri,
Hi, I’m so glad you liked the meatballs. Diced tomatoes will not work at all. You can use them for salsa but not for sauce. You absolutely have to use the crushed tomatoes and or whole. I promise if you use them it will be great next time.
Thanks for the feedback and let me know how it works if you try it again.
Sugar
Hi Sugar,
Do you have any suggestions as to how lean to get the ground beef such as 80/20? Thanks, and looking forward to the meatballs.
Tom, I like to use the ground chuck because it has some fat to it but you can go lean if you want. I have even made them with just ground turkey and chicken when my husband and I are trying to eat light and they are great. Anything will work well.
Enjoy!
Sugar
Sugar, I remember my mom slow cooking her sauce all day, is there a recipe for slow cook sauce with meatballs or can I just use this recipe. I don’t know why my mom cooked her sauce all day…hmmmm??
Roz,
Some days I do cook it all day but you don’t have to. I usually put my gravy on in the morning then let it cook and we have an early dinner on Sunday. Feel free to let it cook all day just keep it low and give it a turn now and then.
Enjoy!
Sugar
Are you supposed to cook the sauce with a lid on or without a lid?
Uncovered! Enjoy,
Sugar